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Make up tips; A simple way to see the real you.

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Well, I got you here under false pretences, or did I?  For as I get older I begin to look at younger women today and the make up they wear, I think to myself, oh my, that's a lot of make up.  So what lies behind, Is make up really a "false pretence"?  Now, I am using 'make up' as a metaphor, for the way we as individuals hide behind a façade.  Men and women for centuries have been using, an altered appearance to hide the real them, whether it is make up, hair styles, spectacles, clothing styles/fashions, the type of car they drive, house they live in, the locations of their homes, or schools the children attend.  It' all false news.  Well for the majority it is.  Don't get me wrong, there is no issue with trying to achieve material success, lifestyle improvements,  or providing the best, one can for the family.  However, the issue is, are these a mask, the 'make up' for our own insecurities, sense of inadequacy etc..  All too often we here of paren

Toxic Humans, will make you cry! is it contagious?

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Have you ever wondered what people mean by "they are a toxic person", "they are poisonous", maybe not a term used that often these days, but the concept is still expressed frequently.  What makes a person Toxic, what makes a society toxic, what is toxicity?  Basically toxicity is the negative nature of humanity, however, it is not a blatant negativity, in for example murder, crime etc., it is rather a more insidious slow acting, more often, psychological phenomena pervading individual lives, families, communities and even whole societies. More often that not, it is seen by the outsider, but not observed so clearly by those in the midst of the effects of the toxin. Human toxicity is an insidious poison that effects, and can even affect individuals.  The worst part about  this toxin, administered by another person in your life, is that others can see it being administered, applied, given to you, yet we ignore their perception.  Yes, so many will have said, and I have