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Depression and Anxiety and Me.

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  For many people Mental Health problems, acute or chronic, are seen as a battle, something to be fought with ardour and endless determination. Almost as though having a Mental Health Diagnosis or issue is forbidden, the taboo illness of the medical and social world. After all, if one has diabetes and has to inject whilst at work or out with friends and family, some people may be inquisitive, ask questions, be understanding etc. But take time off for stress, depression or anxiety and the comments begin to fly, "we all have stress, get over it", "I am 'depressed', especially in todays climate, who isn't!" "so what, we all get anxious about...., doesn't mean I take time of work!", and so many other quotes have been heard. So what about Me? What can I, or what am I supposed to do? Wow, those words are joy to the philosophers, they love those open ended questions, those questions without an empirically correct answer, ones where even

A midlife perspective, discussing life about mind body and soul.

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I am now in my 40's, and I have learnt that my perspective on life has changed over the years, understanding, what is important, what has changed in society, etc., and yes I do get the grumpy old man syndrome on occasions.  As we age, life teaches us lessons, we understand the difference between being alive versus life.  After all, one can live well, but can you say looking back that I led  a good life? Now I am not going to discuss the changes in technology etc, as I have aged, although a social media detox is useful and healthy from time to time.  As it can be a source of stress, unhealthy comparisons, and needless negative opinions.  However, even with out comparing myself to others, I have come to see the changes in my mind body and soul, throughout my journey in this  life thus far.   I have come to realise men's health is important and that, at my age 40+ I need to be concerned about all aspects of my health, whether it be physical health, mental health issues, or spiritu